just guys

just guys...

...the new
men's social group
for men who have sex with men.

just guys...
..safe space free of ego, labels, gossip, attitude, judgment.

Note: we meet at MaineGeneral Health
9 Green Street
Augusta

info: 621-3794
driving directions at the
bottom of the page

Did you know we do Rapid Oral anonymous testing before or immediately after the meetings?  An appointment (621-3794) is a good idea to ensure your space, but more'n likely you can just ask when you come. It's quick, painless, and a great way to make you feel secure. And, it's free. Why not give a call now?

         How did you spend your night last    
                         Wednesday?

    Is it time to get out of the house?
                                    
Sort your sock drawer?
                                                  Change your life?

Wanna spend your night with a bunch of pics on your computer OR a great group of genuine, decent guys?

Come join us, every Wednesday night!  

   ime for you tut?     

RED RIBBON LIBRARY CAFE opens at 5:30 pm
for coffee, cookies, chat, and borrow a great gay read from the library shelves.
Come join the guys!

Testing is available this week before 5:00 and after the meeting.

Please call for an appointment: 621-3794


 
Next up!   

 

“Superheroes…how gay are they?”

 
Wednesday, July 1
6:30- 8:30 pm

NOTE: early starting time when we’ll be chomping on

(what else?) heroes…meatballs, of course!

University of Maine professor Rob K. flies in with his super powers of muscle, might and Kryptonite to save us all from the bad guys and reveal more of the good guys in ways you won’t forget!

The homoeroticism of comic book super men is only slightly below the surface, and Rob rips off the covers of some of the hottest heroes flying, jumping, and camping.

Marvel with us over those thrills and chills beneath our own covers, late at night, long ago when we were boys, and men were superheroes. One of our most popular nights of the year.
   

 

    Meatball HEROES at 6:30!


About Last Week:
     

trying to understand 

More than 40 guys crammed into the Community Center and the night’s discussion was intense and very moving. Learning of the horrifying experiences that one of us endured in an attempt to change his sexual orientation was frightening. His sharing lead to individual stories of trying to change and, by the end of the evening, a survey of everyone present about their comfort level about being gay. Here was the list…each of us chose the number closest to his position. What would you have chosen if you were there?

1. I hate being gay.
2. I would change if I could.
3. I might consider changing.
4. I am resigned to being gay.
5. I am OK with being gay.
6. I like being gay, but I am silent about it.
7. I am happy being gay, but I am not open about it.
8. I am out and open.
9. I am proud to be gay.
10. I am an activist about gay issues
   

If you weren’t there, you missed some great refreshments, a truly terrific night, and a lot of great guys!


 
 Know where you stand: 621-3794   


Sites to check out: 

Thrive

(207) 756-8071
thrive@portlandmaine.gov
http://www.thrivemaine.com
     

GetOut Portland/GoPortland

http://www.goportland.net/   

GetOut Ogunquit/GoOgunquit
http://www.googunquit.net/    

Get Out Saco
http://www.gosaco.net/      

Guy2Guy - Brunswick
http://www.guy2guy.org/  

Deserve to Know ME Statewide Community Calendar
http://www.deservetoknowme.org/yourcommunity

The Bridge Alliance
http://www.thegridgealliance.org

Based in Bangor, The Bridge Alliance is a registered non profit organization whose primary goal is to connect the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and allied (GLBTA) community.   

It seeks to:

facilitate the development of a GLBTA community which promotes and embraces diversity 

promote and encourage the understanding that the GLBTA community plays an important role in Maine’s cultural, social and economic landscape

give back to the GLBTA community through charitable donations or in-kind services

produce annual events that will assemble the GLBTA community
        

 

GLBT AA Meeting - Sundays, 6:30pm

This group has historic significance as its founding started the recognition of the needs of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender recovering alcoholics.  While most GLBT recovering people attended other meetings at the time, many experienced homophobia and heterosexist responses when they talked about sexual orientation issues (gender identity issues were not openly discussed by anyone at the time of the group's founding-they were subsumed under the gay and lesbian issues category).  Many GLBT people were uncomfortable discussing sexuality (and gender) issues in "straight" meetings.
Location: Williston West Church, 32 Thomas Street, Portland
 

Directions: http://maps.google.com/maps?f=d&saddr=&daddr=32+Thomas+St,+Portland,+ME+04102+(Williston+West+Church)   

More Info:
http://www.aamaine.org/groups/1/glbtq.htm

 

 

Other Email Newsletters

Maine Gay Men's Weekly News Letter

An email newsletter focusing on organizations and activities in southern Maine.  It is primarily for gay men, but they do include some general GLBT activities info and links to various GLBT organizations around the state.  For more information, to see a sample copy, or to be added to their mailing list, send Joe an email at cascogays@gmail.com with your request.

Family Affairs Newsletter

A free, twice-a-month, social activities newsletter for the GLBTI (gay/les/bi/trans/intersexed) community, sent out on the 1st and 15th of each month. It is covers a 50 mile radius around Bangor and also Aroostook and Washington counties.  Email megress@gwi.net with "Family Affairs" in the subject line to subscribe.

For new and views:

www.advocate.com

For health questions:

www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/drk/

For both health and news here in Maine...

www.deserve2knowME.org

and, find answers to the questions you have and safe sex ideas:

www.thebody.com


See you Wednesday night, guys!
 

Join us! Bring a friend!

Come do what we do at just guys...

...hang, talk, laugh, play, share, care, celebrate being...

just guys.

 

Hope to see you!

Information:

confidential phone: 621-3794
cell:
215-4594


Directions:
The more southerly rotary in Augusta, at the end of Western Avenue.
Exit just past the new Walgreens with the iron fence around it. Go straight, past red roof on L, blue house on R SLOW DOWN!!
Watch for yellow fire truck sign. DO NOT GO DOWN THE HILL!
Stop! Make a left into the parking lot of the 4 story, brick building, formerly CMP.
Enter front door, up the stairs, 2nd floor.

   

 

just friends is a group of folk, male and female, who have offered an ear, a shoulder, a hand, and friendship on a one-to-one, peer basis.

Lonely? Lost? Just down? Just need to share some stuff?

When you need a friend and friends just pass you by, give Lew a shout, and you can be connected to someone who cares.

For those of you who cannot make meetings, but have access to the net, this could be your touch with someone who would be glad to connect with you.  You can decide if you want to share your name, your problems, your
bad jokes, emails, or just a cup of coffee.

The people are not counselors, docs or therapists, they're
just friends.

for more information:

call 621-3794 or
215-4594 (cell phone)


RED RIBBON LIBRARY CAFE

Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45

Come join us at the Cafe in our Community Center where you can grab a cup of coffee, read a mag, munch on a cookie, and schmooze.  Curl up with a good gay read  from the shelves of the library.  If you like it, you can check it out!

Private HIV Testing is available!
 

 just guys...
...hanging We just hang together with no particular agenda. It's loose, it's casual, it's informal.

talking We want to feel comfortable saying what's on our minds. Sometimes we have a guest speaker, sometimes we discuss important stuff about relationships and being men.

laughing Sometimes we just have a good time enjoying good humor. There is an understanding that the fun is good-natured and not at anyone's expense. Here, respect is given and expected, and there's no room for gossip.

playing We like to play games together. Some nights we watch a movie. There are always refreshments. someone will bring in his latest kitchen creation, and we all get to sample the results...good or bad!

sharing We work to develop a real feel of sharing. When we accept without judgment, then we can share our feelings without fear.

caring We like one another, it's as simple as that. By caring about each other, we grow more comfortable with ourselves and learn that there are men who think we matter because we think they matter.

celebrating We recognize that we only go around once, and we choose to make the orbit something special. The group is a safe space to be who we are, experience new things, and to be happy doing it.

being...The old saying holds true here: "Want a friend? Be a friend." We creat the safe space we want to be in. We work to be the men we want to have as friends.

...just guys 

Good men, good friends, good fun!

Join us! 

 

 

So when was the last time you had a decent date?

You have one now...this Wednesday night!